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Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts

Friday, 25 December 2015

YOU HAVE THE BEST CHRISTMAS GIFT ALREADY

Merry Christmas dear friends, may the true essence of this season never be lost on us and may it bring us multiple graces that fit all our desires. Amen.


Talking about desires, permit me to get very personal with my point of view this morning (it’s not like I know any other way). We have discussed what Christmas should mean in truth, today I would like to go one better and explain why I think family is the greatest gift of all.

Thursday, 24 December 2015

AND WHEN THEY ASK "WHAT DOES CHRISTMAS MEAN TO YOU?"

It has been quite the year for everyone – both in a good and bad sense, but we have to be grateful for the overall good which is the gift of life. Being here is not by chance, but however you choose to see it, we are here and that’s what counts.



So many questions crop up at this time of the year; from Jehovah’s witnesses asking “does the bible ask you to celebrate Christmas?” to your friends and random girls asking for gifts to commemorate the season. The loudest question you are going to hear people ask is “what does Christmas mean to you?”

Ironically, whenever I see clergy men and other “important” people answer this question all the say is “this is not a season to eat and drink in excess… or indulge yourself in …bla bla bla”. 

Tuesday, 24 November 2015

7 (random) habits of highly annoying people


The world is full of annoying people, with more than 7 annoying habits (but 7 is my favorite number).
This post is more about the people than their habits.


1.     Joykills
One of the most annoying habits anyone can possess is the inability to take a joke. Many times we plan a very impressive joke/prank to play on our friends, siblings, coworkers, parents (at your own risk) or anyone else for that matter.

Wednesday, 18 November 2015

RANDOM MUSINGS ON TODAY'S EVENTS



What a day this has been. More eventful and tiring than most, I must admit; saw things, heard things, did things.
I had always had a neutral outlook on the case of big Uncle Dasuki in this whole period of trials and probes happening to him. But a panel just revealed that he was dubiously awarded arms contracts to the tune of N333bn. Every day I keep wondering why the amounts these suspected looters are accused to have siphoned always exceed all logic. It is hard to imagine what one man (and one at such and age) would need that much money for. Anyways, we pray that justice prevails and hopefully the money is not re – looted again if recovered.
In more interesting news, the acting Vice Chancellor of LASU Prof. Fidelis Njokanma has abandoned his office at the institution over charms surrounding the administrative block and the Senate Building of the institution, Punch reports. This is the part where I say something about it, but there's really nothing to say. I do hope it is fixed soon though because in the end, things like this always have their ways of coming back to bite the students in the butt.
An unknown substance is said to have gone off in the ancient city of Kano today. The substance, believed to be a bomb, exploded at the Kano GSM market around farm centre. Details of the incident are still sketchy.The incident came less than 24 hours after a similar explosion in a crowded park in Yola, the Adamawa state capital, left at least 34 people dead and 80 injured. 20 people are already confirmed dead, now there's a new city to add to tonight's prayers. #PrayForTheWorld.
Still on Paris, chants of 'Allahu Akbar' were reportedly heard in Istanbul as some Turkey fans shamefully booed a pre-match minute's silence for the victims of the Paris attacks.
The friendly itself against Greece was largely forgettable as the action finished 0-0 at the Basaksehir Fatih Terim Stadium.
But the game was tarnished before it even started as a video emerged suggesting some of the Turkish faithful were voicing their dissent towards tributes for the 129 victims who were killed in last Friday's atrocities in Paris. Our world is indeed messed up.
We mustn't forget that the fuel scarcity is still biting harder , transport costs have gone up, the crowds at filling stations keep getting bigger; yet we keep hearing on TV that there is no scarcity, " avoid panic buying" they say. But they do not feel the scarcity, do they? To Whom It May Concern, whenever we find a filling station that has fuel and it gets our turn to buy, we will panic – buy and you will do nothing about it.
And they are saying that they will start paying unemployment benefit by 2016 from the TSA (I think that means Treasury Single Account). Big daddy Jega has also come out to say that TSA is a “Recipe for Electoral Disaster”. Big English that is always difficult to understand.
Today also dropped its fair share of lessons, they include
·         a. People are ungrateful.
·         b. Older people always feel that the younger generation is doing things wrong.
·        c. Children grow so fast these days.
·        d. Running into old friends always make your day.
·        e. CHANGE HAS NOT COME. At least I haven't seen it.

Saturday, 7 November 2015

PRE - GAME TALK ... YOU WANT TO READ THIS



It's one of those Saturdays again. I mean the good ones where no matter what you have to do, you will finish in time to catch your favourite team play in the EPL. There are a couple of things to do though, before the games begin. Some of them are, but not limited to the following


1. Talk to your family


We get carried away in the hustle and bustle of everyday life and seem to forget the people we're doing it all for. Asking questions is a good way to find out things you don't know. People are secretive, children more so; but willingness to ask them what is going on with them might just make them want to open up to you. My little cousin just asked me if I'm not going to check his books today (I do that every Saturday and he uses the opportunity to tell me the things that happened during the week at school). He's a very inspiring kid, and he's probably the reason I'm writing this post.

2. Fix things around the house.

Little things will always need repairs around the house and the Pre - football moments of Saturday present the perfect opportunity to get down and dirty and fix them. It might be a couple of minor electrical stuff like changing bulbs, socket heads and whatever. Just do it. Preferably with another family member. This provides bonding time and could be the mystery "Quality Time" everyone talks about.

3. Get some exercise



This should be top on the list. Health is key to enjoying life (plus its really good to keep fit and have a presentable body). I know I've not had any exercise in weeks, my cousin just asked "what are these red shoes for?" about my football boots, I spent about 7 minutes explaining the concept to him, but long story short, I need to take this piece of advice too.

4. Visit friends 
This needs no explanation. Visits help to build ties. Visit friends on Saturday, Sunday is for family (this is not a general rule, it's just my rule).

5. Get your hands on some sports news 


This is most important to me. Please do not be that annoying guy at the viewing center who argues like a blind idiot (sorry). Use your phone, buy sports papers; one way or the other, just make sure you don't come to say "when will Wenger use Van Persie now? What is wrong with the man?" (what is wrong with you).


6. Have a nice weekend and may the odds ever be in your favour.

Tuesday, 3 November 2015

A WORD ON FRIENDSHIP







Relationships are pretty much what keeps us going, family, friends, acquaintances all come together to form our support system. Every individual needs others in one way or another to function optimally; and friends are arguably the most constant presence in our lives, from childhood to the prime of adulthood. Sometimes friendships change as we age and experience new stages of life, and a lucky few get to keep their friendships till very ripe old ages. So the question is what constitutes a good friend.
Good friends support us when necessary, but more importantly, help to put us back in line when we start to err or take unwholesome decisions. Good friends are trustworthy (that goes without saying) and understanding. Being understanding means that they know us and our faults and accept us for the imperfect beings that we are. Simply put, a good friend cuts slacks. It is said that humans are creatures of emotions, not logic and sometimes we do things that make no sense whatsoever – but a true friend understands that fact and doesn’t judge us so readily.
The biggest attribute of a good friend is loyalty. Loyalty needs no explanation, and is a matter of extreme absolutes, you either are or you’re not. Being a good friend requires that you have the back of your friends every time and in every condition (except maybe death, and a federal crime), a disloyal friend is a liability, dead load (even worse).

So read this, evaluate your friendship(s) and make adjustments where necessary. The world needs better friendships.